What kind of security does a phobic person need?
There is a profound attack of love and self-esteem in all phobics - the less you love yourself, the less secure you feel. Therefore, all experiences that reinforce the blazon of our narcissism - fall in love, see his recognized qualities ... - can alleviate a phobia. But loving in the long run can be dramatic because the phobic person is often tempted to merge with his partner and imagine that he is nothing without him. Which, generally, turns out to be inaccurate. Indeed, paradoxically, it is in solitude that the phobic person rebuilds itself more easily.